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I haven't posted in a while. My excuse is an internet connection that isn't totally reliable, but it does work, so my other excuses include, being engrossed with the 3rd book of the Inheritance series, Brisingr. This one got a little long and a little gory. I made it through because I thought it was a triology and I would be finishing the whole thing. What a rude trick, the last page says to look for the concluding story in the 4th book. Oh well. I like reading easy novels every once in a while to lighten me up a little. Now, I'm starting on "The Year of Living Biblically" by A.J. Jacobs. So far it's pretty interesting. The author is an editor for "Esquire" magazine and lives in New York. He attempts to live the Bible as literally as possible for an entire year. It's interesting to see him trying to interpret what the bible says. I think I'd have some real difficulty. Robert and I have been reading the Old Testament together. I told him the other morning that I think the Old Testament was totally fabricated because I just can't believe some of these stories in it. We just read a story about some guy who has a concubine. He stays with her family for a few days, then they decide to go home. It's pretty late, but they find lodging in a city held by the tribe of Benjamin. Well, the men of the city come to the house and want the guy for their own pleasure. Well, the man of the house tells them not to take him, but gives them his concubine instead. They rape and ravage her and send her back nearly dead. The guy wakes up the next morning, finds her dead on the porch, so he cuts her body up into 12 pieces and sends a piece of her to each of the 12 tribes at which point they go and annhialate the tribe of Benjamin. Well, 300 men escape and suddenly the other tribes realize, "we can't totally kill off an entire tribe," so they go to a nearby country, kill everyone except the virgins, and bring them back to the 300 men and give them to wife so the tribe can be propagated. True story, found in the final chapters of Judges. Now, somebody explain that one to me.

Well, enough on the bible. I'm kind of rambling. The other thing I've been working on is a desk for Ashlee. We bought a roll desk from my sister and brother-in-law which I have been refinishing. I thought woodworking might be sort of fun. Well, I decided today, it's not... I am not having fun sanding this incredibly stiff stain off this incredibly old desk. I guess it may be worth it when it's all done. I'll post some pictures when it's done. At least Ashlee will have a place for all her little things that are currently taking up residence on her floor and in her closet.

The other little bit of news I have is that I got to see our baby on Tuesday. It was a little shy at first. We had to shake and poke it quite a bit to get it to let us see anything. Well, the good news is, it's healthy and growing as it should. I had her take a real close look at the umbilical cord and no problems thus far. All the fingers and toes appear to be there and no extra limbs, so that's good. Well, to make a long story longer, it's a boy! Yep! I get to raise 4 boys and 1 girl. You can imagine that the girl was a little disappointed. When I told her, she went in her room and sobbed. I tried to comfort her. I told her that since she's the only girl, she gets to inherit all my girly things when I die. That kind of perked her up a little. I also told her that we can spend some quality time together since we're the only girls doing girly things. Well, she's sort of over it now I think, and we're all excited to welcome this new little one into our home. Somehow, I know this is our last one, so I'm really savoring all of it and having a wonderful pregnancy.

I love you and hope I didn't bore you to tears with this post.

Busy October

I thought I'd share some photos from this month. The kids had a great time trick-or-treating with their cousins. A couple of my brothers and my sister came out with us. We had a ghostly dinner that was great fun to prepare thanks to Family Fun Magazine.

We also had a fun time at Cornbelly's in Lehi. It's a huge maze of maize. This year's maze was carved in the shape of David Archuleto, Utah's Idol. (Kind of funny, I know.) Anyway, that was great fun. We lost Kyle in the maze for quite a while and I was a little worried about him. Funny story though. I was writing on everyone's water bottle with a sharpie as we were getting out of the car and I thought, maybe I'll just put my cell phone number on Ammon's hand if he gets lost, someone can call me. Then I thought, I'll put it on Kyle's hand too. Sure enough, after a while, he found a nice family who asked if he was lost. He showed them his hand and asked them to call. It didn't take too long to find him after that. I was grateful for that bit of inspiration. It's a pretty big maze and I wasn't looking forward to organizing a search party.

Things are plugging along pretty well. We enjoyed the warmest Halloween night in Utah in a decade or more. I guess we brought California weather with us.

We love you all.

Weekend Memories

I just thought I'd update on the Brouwer family. We had such a fun time with my Provo siblings and their families last night. My brother, Jim and his family live and work at Aspen Grove in the mountains. My sister, Emily and her husband, Craig and my brother Scott and his wife Karissa are going to BYU/UVU. They all came over for dinner and we had such a great "adult" conversation together. I don't know if this has ever happened to any of you, but I've felt a little isolated from my family, especially the younger ones because we are so far apart in age. Emily is 12 years younger than I am, but now that they are older, I feel like we have so much more in common and our conversations have more substance. You can say what you want about being from a big family or raising a large family. I got all sorts of comments when I was younger. One girl accused my parents of over-populating the world and using precious resources. Growing up in a large family wasn't always easy. I think we all felt a lack of attention from our parents. (Really, what kid doesn't!?) But, what we lacked in attention from our parents, we certainly received from our siblings. And now! I wouldn't trade any of them for anything. They are really amazing people and I'm just so glad to live close enough to some of them now to really get to know them. Most of them were really young when I left home, it's fun to get to know who they have become. I know it wasn't always easy for my mom and dad to raise us all. (I think I was probably the most difficult teenager.) But, thanks Mom and Dad for doing an awesome job at it!

Okay, away from the soliloquy on the family. Now, I can move on to my amazing husband who didn't complain at all about me taking all of Saturday off. I went to a really great Enrichment Activity at the church. I made several Christmas gifts and a few cute things for my house. It was nice to get to know some of the ladies at my church too. Then, I got my hair done and met up with Robert's family for dinner. During all of this, Robert took the kids to Ethan's 2 Lacrosse games and to the BYU football game. He didn't complain about it at all, and I think the kids had a great time with their dad, and I definitely got some great R&R.

I've been researching Lactose Intolerance and Coeliac Disease for the last couple of days. I'm concerned that Ammon might have Coeliac. I won't get into the gorey details, but it's an intestinal disease that affects the villi in the small intestine. If it is, he'll have to go on a lifetime gluten-free diet. Not much fun, I'm sure. I'm going to have him tested at the doctor. His stools are never solid. I've had him milk-free for a long time, and dairy free for the last couple of weeks and it hasn't helped him all that much. Not much fun potty-training a consistent diarrhea kid! :-0 Anyway, I'll keep you all updated on his condition. We've recently switched to ricemilk instead of soymilk because I've heard that might cause problems as well. I didn't know when I signed up to be a mother, I'd automatically be drafted to doctor/researcher.

Anyway, great memories! I love you all. I'll get some pictures on here just as soon as I find the camera. I know it's buried here somewhere!

Traveling Salesmen groups

We just got solicited, again, by the magazine salesmen. They came by yesterday and I turned them away. My husband was around today and they hit him up. They almost got him too. Luckily, I've done a little research on these groups. They are generally black teens who say they are from inner-cities. They are generally trying to get out of the ghettos and gang problems. Sometimes they are trying to get points to get their kids back out of foster care by holding down a steady job. (That was the story today). They all have a well-rehearsed story that tugs at your heart-strings. It makes you almost want to buy from them. The fact is that most of their stories are well fabricated. The people that are getting rich off these scams are the magazine companies and the teen sales pushing companies.

The industry is riddled with exploitation of youth, mysterious deaths in van-rollovers, hiring of known felons, rapes, robbings and worse. When you are supporting these kids, you are actually supporting an immoral industry that is promoting slavery once again. There are better ways for these kids to get out of the slums.

Anyway, I just thought I’d give you something to go by, since I’m generally a pretty good sucker (or have been in the past), I’m afraid I’ve gotten pushed into these scams a few times. But NO MORE! If you’re interested in finding out more, check out this website: Magazine Scams and Rip offs

For all you crafty people

Okay, so I've never claimed to be creative in the decorating sense. Most of my house is still picturless because I can't decide where my pictures should hang. I generally leave those decisions to Robert because he usually does a better job at it than I do. So, I have a dilemma. Some of you creative, crafty people might be able to give me some ideas.

Our family has a list of about 10 family mottos that we made in a Family Home Evening at one point. We put them on a really ugly posterboard with marker that I had hanging in our home in Danville. I'm ready to update our look. I've thought about putting them on 10 different wooden plaques with vinyl lettering or toll painting. Just putting the vinyl lettering directly on the wall. Maybe the vinyl lettering on the wall interspersed with framed family pictures. Maybe I could hire one of my very talented sisters-in-law or a couple sisters to make a caligraphy artwork for me to frame and just hang on the wall. Does anyone have any suggestions?

Winter Fun

We woke up on Sunday morning to a winter wonderland. There was at least 2 inches of snow on the ground. Well, it didn't take much to coax the kids out into the snow. They donned hats, gloves, boots, ski bibs and coats and trekked out to perform the winter snow ritual. I'm not sure who was more excited about it, Robert or the kids. They had a great time. Here are a few pics.

Election Time

I'm really trying to figure out politics. Usually, it just makes me sad. I wish there were some moral people to vote for. Who, being moral, would want to involve themselves with politics anyway? It's a sad state of affairs our country is in and I feel sorry for whoever gets elected because they'll have quite the job to inherit. However, I still think our responsibility as citizens to vote for elected officials is so important.

A friend of mine posted this link on her blog. It is a test. Apparently it was written by a guy named Bradley O’Leary who is the former president of the American Association of Political Consultants. He wrote a book about Obama for this reason:

“I basically wrote this book for my six daughters and six of my grandchildren who can vote because a couple of them had told me they were going to vote for Barack Obama,” O’Leary says. “When I asked them why, they said because he was good looking, his rhetoric was wonderful, [and] they liked listening to him.”

In response, he put together a test for voters to compare their views on the issues with those of Obama. ”You score one point every time you agree with Barack Obama and you subtract a point every time you disagree with him,” O’Leary explains. “And if you wind up in the plus area, then you should vote for him. If you wind up in the minus area, then you should perhaps rethink about who you’re going to vote for.”

So, of course I took the test. I’ve kind of been on the fence about the candidates but after taking this test, I was surprised at just how far on one side I scored and how the rest of the country voted on these issues. I’m aware that the author is probably biased, although I felt the questions were worded pretty fairly, but at least this opened my eyes to many of the issues.

Your turn. See if you’re surprised at your score.

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